May 21, 2013

Thinking About Grandparents

Grandpa in his forties

Last week, one of my grandfathers passed away after many years of suffering, and I’ve been thinking a lot about the past, making some sort of mental scrapbook, because, from now on, this is all I’ve got left of him. There’s nothing more to add to that relationship, no “next summer” or “next month”. Everything [...]

Peanut Nostalgia

I have no picture of the peanut butter I'm talking about, but, this was the view from the kitchen where I made it.

Where I grew up, peanut butter was something weird that was occasionally mentioned in movies. Even now, although it is available in many stores, it is not very popular – Romanians tend to like Nutella-like spreads more. Over the years, I became increasingly selective about what I eat, but when I was much younger, before [...]

Happy Birthday, Partner!

Daniel

  This week it’s his birthday. He’s taller now, but do not let that fool you – the kid lives on, inside. I wish more people could see him, and the great kindness and sensitivity that often gets hidden away from others. Read that, birthday Scorpio? You’re a remarkable human being, and it is wonderful [...]

Hi! Sorry for Being Late…

Hands and Feet

Do you know that feeling when postponement grows into urgency? It’s either good or ugly. I’m high on the happy side right now, but it has not always been this way. Although this is a moment I have wished and prepared for ever since I can remember, for many years I felt stuck in that [...]